ABOUT
ME
Trauma Is A System. So Is Healing.
I wasn’t born—I was weaponized.
By silence. By shame. By systems designed to collapse you slowly while smiling to your face. I didn’t find coaching. I fought for language when the world told me not to speak. I’ve lived inside emotional architecture rigged for collapse—where survival meant obedience, invisibility, or self-erasure. But I don’t obey anymore. I design exit routes. I turn trauma blueprints into strategic frameworks for people who’ve been gaslit by families, institutions, and “healing” industries alike.
If you’re here, you already know something’s wrong—you’ve just been trained to call it your fault.
You’ve carried what isn’t yours. Been too good at surviving. You’ve outgrown your coping mechanisms, but no one told you what comes next. You’ve read the books. You’ve done the journaling. You’ve tried the forgiveness arc. And still, there’s a voice inside that whispers, this isn’t healing—it’s performance. I work with the ones who see through the language but don’t know where else to go. The ones who’ve tried being palatable, spiritual, productive, and still feel haunted. You’re not lost. You’re just standing at the edge of a system that no longer contains you.
Survival As Strategy
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Helping you breathe again, safely
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Rewriting old rules that trapped you
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Getting smart about your triggers
Pattern Recognition
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Connecting dots no one else sees
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Seeing how stories repeat
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Naming what’s really going on